Meredith Simmons

Meredith Simmons
Meredith Simmons

AMFT

Specializing in maternal/perinatal mental health, anxiety/perfectionism, grief, trauma work with Brainspotting, and relational/couple therapy

Pronouns | she, her, hers

I love helping clients get unstuck. We become stuck for a variety of reasons: we become stuck because of previous trauma we hold in our bodies; we become stuck because we believe things to be true about ourselves that are not true; we become stuck because we’ve outgrown old coping strategies; we can also become stuck when we suppress emotions or tell ourselves that certain emotions are not OK. We can even get stuck in our “thinking brain” (the prefrontal cortex), so I use a trauma-informed approach called Brainspotting to access healing at the deepest subcortical level, the “feeling brain.” I am also influenced by Experiential Therapy, Attachment Theory, and Internal Family Systems (IFS) as I help clients identify how they are stuck and what it means to be free. 

More specifically, I see clients of all ages for a variety of reasons, but especially enjoy reducing anxiety, navigating life-transitions, battling inner perfectionism, building self-esteem, and processing trauma and grief. I have a special interest in perinatal clients experiencing symptoms of postpartum anxiety, postpartum OCD, and postpartum depression. Despite the blessing of a new life, parents can be left with feelings of inadequacy, exhaustion, incompetency, depression, fear, and shame for even having those feelings. Prioritizing mental health is the best gift new parents can give to their baby.

I also enjoy couples’ therapy and specifically helping partners get unstuck by better understanding each other, communicating more effectively, and developing meaningful relationships. I value providing therapy to clients as they transition to parenthood and utilize The Gottman Institute’s And Baby Makes Three to tailor therapy to the clients’ individual needs. As a certified facilitator of Prepare Enrich, a premarital assessment tool that uses evidenced based skills to foster healthy relationships in 8-10 sessions, I offer
premarital therapy to clients to address areas of growth such as: communication, conflict resolution, sexuality and affection, relationship roles, family and friends, parenting, and stress management. 
 

I am open to integrating clients’ faith into the therapeutic process upon their request. I identify as a Christian and believe we are all spiritual beings. Spirituality is a vital part of life, and what that means to everyone is different. I approach my clients’ beliefs, culture, and customs from a place of curiosity and respect.

Prior to becoming a therapist, I received my Bachelor’s degree in English from Washington and Lee University in 2001 and hold a Masters’ degree from Mercer University’s School of Medicine. I currently work under direct supervision of Erika Pluhar, PhD, Eds, LMFT, LPC, CST-S, ACS.

Personally, I have been married for twenty years and have four children. I understand the balancing act of juggling a career, a marriage, children, friends, and family. Adulting is a joy and at the same time the hardest job I have felt underqualified to perform. I value the wisdom I have acquired through both lived and clinical experience.

When Meredith is not driving her kids to soccer or baseball practice, she might be running with her husband, chatting with friends in coffee shops, or watching the latest binge-worthy TV show on Netflix. She loves musicals, a good novel, and belly-laughing with her hilarious four children.

Favorite Resources:

Read

It’s Not Always Depression by Hilary Jacobs Hendel

Secure Love by Julie Menanno

The Heart of Trauma by Bonnie Badenoch

Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson

The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook by Kristin Neff

Secure Love Podcast by Julie Menanno

The Leading Edge EFT with James Hawkins and Ryan Rana

The Good Inside with Becky Kennedy

Where Should We Begin with Esther Perel